Breaking Stereotypes and Myths

The adult industry has many stereotypes. Some of them are absurd and its fun to parody them, others are annoying and you feel like if you hear that someone is surprised that you are actually intelligent, you might have to see what their head looks like on a stick. I’m only a little bitter, I swear! I admit, I’m guilty of stereotyping, grouping, mass assumption, and being surprised that a certain group (to remain nameless) has a single brain in their head.
So, not all male dancers are gay, strippers don’t always double as hookers(actually this is a rare thing that they do double), not all pornstars do anal, having sex for a living is actually hard work and you don’t get to just lay there. Sluts can be selective instead of having fun with everyone, sex-workers still have the right to say no, many adult industry professionals have degrees, are married or have a partner, we weren’t all abused sad children with a daddy complex, we are capable of love, a healthy sexual appetite does not make one a pervert (we are all perverts anyway…yes, that means you!)
Yes, there is drug and alcohol abuse in the adult industry but no more than anywhere else that you don’t have to get drug tested in order to work. Entertainment as a whole seems to have its demons.

Does this stuff sounds absurd yet? It does to many people that are in the industry and we see the stereotypes personified. Those that personify the stereotype usually aren’t in the industry very long, or just scrape by pathetically, acting as though they are “making it”

Being attractive and/or at peace with your inner pervert does not make you stupid, actually it seems that if you embrace your inner freak, you’ll be much happier, less stressed and have an improved, healthier sex life. Hmmm, that doesn’t sound so dumb to me. Don’t you love how pretty, sexy, or just plain ol’ sex=dumb? I’m pretty sure there are geniuses out there who are getting laid, maybe at this very second!(GASP!) Its healthy to explore your kinky side, let it all hang out once in awhile, watch porn in the living room instead of the bedroom, being naughty and buying that dildo in the window, tie up your lover and tease them, etc, etc, etc

Lets explore farther than my little box of adult fun, shall we? . . . Read the rest of this blog entry here!